The freedom that comes with the discipline of Submission is to be free from having to get your way. Submission frees us to brush things off with joy, to be able to say, "It's not a big deal!" and move on. We are also finally free to value other people. We are commended by the Word to consider the interests of others as more important than our own. We are to do unto others as we wish they would do unto us. For a reward or an advancement? No, for love!